A father took epic revenge after a male coach refused to stop slapping his daughter’s butt. While most men would have simply assaulted the coach, this father completely destroyed the coach’s life, career, and marriage.
He shared his story “Please don’t slap my daughter’s a**” on Reddit under the user name Scoot_Ya_Boot,
I’ve coached both of my daughters softball teams at some point in my life, from 8U to last years 14U. At the time of the story, I was the secretary for the Softball Booster Club. As is customary in Pennsylvania, the previous board had conspired and stole a lot of money from the Booster club. They all resigned, and a new Booster Club was selected, including a new President. The new President Carl (all names changed) decided that if the previous members paid the money back in full, that we wouldn’t press charges. They paid it back. End of back story.
Now, we still let the previous President (Steve) help out with coaching, because most people still really liked him, and he wasn’t a total douche all the time. Normally I would head coach my older daughters team, and be a “dugout dad” for my younger one. I took the year off coaching, and decided to just be a (loud and exciteable) spectator. A few games into our season, I noticed Steve was overly affectionate with the girls, nothing terrible, hugging and stuff. Still struck me as odd.Game 6 or 7, my daughter Carrie (name changed) CRANKS a ball against the left field fence, and she gets a stand up double. We all cheer, moment over. Next two girls walk, Carrie ends up on 3rd. As she’s readying for the next pitch, Steve as the 3rd base coach leans up to her, says something, and smacks her on the butt. Well, I may be over protective, but I’m not cool with that. After she comes in and I go say good job to her, I pull Steve aside and tell him that’s not OK with me, and please don’t do it again. He agrees. Happy ending? Nope. Two games later, I’m sitting behind the fence on the 3rd base line, and he does it to her in the batters box. As a boisterous parent, I yell, “Steve!” When he looks over, I shake my head no. He nods and pumps his palms to the ground to say “chill out.” I let it go.
For the rest of the season, Steve goes around telling all the parents and coaches about how I’m such an a**hole, how I embarrassed him, and I shouldn’t be part of the league. At this point in my life, I’ve only been in the town for about six years, so most people (to my shock) side with Steve. The guy has lived here his entire life, his name is even on the Little League field, but I’m still pretty pissed.
The whole stealing thing was one of those, “we never addressed it in public” kind of things, the worst kept secret in town. Never on the record. Steve and his daughter also run the Civic Center and Little League, and rumor is that they’ve been skimming from them for over a decade.
Usually our Booster Club Meetings are low key, general business, book keeping, etc. As a charity, we often donate to the other local organizations, like the school teams, little league, and the Civic Center. Given the shenanigans at the Booster Club and Little League, we decline that year to make a donation (usually around $2,000 to $3,500.) Well, Steve goes mental. “How can you hurt these kids, etc, etc.” It’s all aimed at me, and I’m an adult, so I take it. As he’s storming out, he says verbatim, “and your kids f***ing suck at softball.”
Nope. Nope. F***ing nope, Batman. Instead of charging after him or yelling, I stew in my chair. I go home and tell my wife, who’s just as pissed. Word gets around school about what Steve said, my kids hear, and I’m even more pissed.
So, I did what any rational parent would do and wrote an anonymous letter to the FBI. I included everything, ledger statements, dates and missing receipts. It took 3 months of the FBI raiding all of our local charitable organizations in our town, but they charged Steve, his daughter and son. Over $80,000 between the three of them. On top of that, his wife left him.
And I’m sure what really f***ed with Stevens’s head the most and still drives him crazy was when they took his name off the Little League field. In the end, he must have scrounged up all the money he had, or sucked dick for it, but his family paid it all back. He received a two year sentence, and is forbidden from being involved in any more charitable organizations.
F*** you, Steve.Edit: I had to change a few things because a few people sleuthed the news story out, and I’m adding a TLDR
TL/DR; Steve gave my daughter a “good job” slap to the butt, I told him off, he did it again. Steve got mad I embarrassed him, turned the town on me, so I turned the FBI on him for embezzling from kids charities. F*** Steve.
Some readers believe they have found the news story about this incident. The author of this story admits he has changed some details including names. He may have also changed the sport or city where the events took place. These are the two likely stories, an FBI raid in Reading and an embezzling soccer coach from Tri-Boro.
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